A strong, confident man does not wait for "permission" to approach a woman.He has a belief that her life will probably be better for having known him (at least until he receives feedback otherwise).This provides the "feedback" about how your approach is going. Learn to read whether she is "comfortable" and "attracted" to you.Basically, if her body language is open, her feet are pointed towards you, she's smiling, making eye contact, and continuing the conversation...continue to assume interest and move forward.So, assume interest and approach, until you have a clear signal that she isn't interested. The conclusions point to the idea that women need to feel that a casual sexual experience will both be safe and pleasurable for them to consider it (see my discussion of that article and tips HERE and HERE).If she does signal disinterest, however, respect her wishes and leave. A guy who focuses solely on safety will not be seen as attractive or pleasurable.
This doesn't mean that she is going to jump into bed with you right away..certainly assuming respect, courtesy, and curiosity isn't out of the question.
Even an elevator can be made comfortable with the right body language.
Leaning back, giving her space, with a calm demeanor works wonders to instill comfort in any situation (see HERE for more on body language). You can most certainly assume you deserve her interest.
The resulting "debate" has left many a man scratching his head and asking the questions, Clearly, men don't want to become the object of Internet ridicule or feminist scorn.
In an initial attempt to address this confusion, Dr.