Texting him multiple times a day and chatting about his day seems not only too available, but slightly desperate as well.If you’re busy with your own life—as you should be—then you shouldn’t have time to text 50 times a day. It’s Friday night at 4 PM, and he calls *which you pick up on the first ring, of course* and asks if you want to do dinner at 6.I would always say yes when they wanted to do something and that led to me being taken advantage of, and encouraged them to place high expectations on my time. [Read: 16 reasons why you’re always taken for granted by the ones you love] So how do you know if you’re too available for your partner?Usually, this isn’t very hard to discover, because there are a LOT of signs that you’re way too available. You should not be texting back if you’re in the shower. It’s okay to reply right away if you’re not busy with anything, but if you’re in the middle of getting your teeth cleaned at the dentist and have to spit on your hygienist in order to communicate, you’ve got issues. The second you see a missed call because you were in a meeting or even just taking a quick nap, do you call back and immediately start apologizing and explaining yourself?While many men are drawn to Leila’s beauty and sexuality, is their infatuation only in fantasy form?Or would they actually be drawn to women like that in real life?Take it from me: read these signs and change them ASAP—if you want to make something work. If you’re constantly saying yes to everything your new squeeze asks or wants to do, then you’re too available. Don’t you just want to curl up on the couch and watch a movie, instead of going to some lame car show? Honestly, this sounds more desperate than you being nice.Instead, say a quick, “Oh sorry, what did you need?
[Read: 20 signs you’re a people pleaser and just don’t know it] #4 You initiate most of the conversations.
And, well…that definitely didn’t work out for very long.
Once I started putting the pieces together, I figured out that I was just too available for the men in my life.
But the woman who stands out for me is Leila Ali, who as a boxing champion one would expect to be strong willed and gutsy.
But she mixes it with a sensuality, gracefulness, and allure that have many men’s mouths on the floor. ) of my dating gal pals are also spirited, self-assured and spunky, it made me wonder if this was a guy magnet or repellent.